If you are highly cynical about everything you are actually highly niave. And probably discontent.
Take the shit life gives you and go and grow a garden.
I don't understand, I stand under and wonder.
Whether your parents treated you well or badly is their problem. It was them being themselves and creating their own story. Its your job to be You and create your own story.
The only true and complete way to "destroy" an enemy is to make them a genuine friend.
The first step is to want to understand. A compassionate sense of humour can help.
We are All stuck with each other Forever. We can make that harder or easier for ourselves. Everything knows, we've got Time.
What will you be thinking of your new lover and/or adversary in a decade? In your old age? What do you think of what has gone before? And what you see ahead? Will you always see it the same? If you aren't sure, ask someone who has been in a similar position some time ago.
The only form of revenge that is truly sating is Healing. All other forms makes the wound worse and therefore becomes insatible.
Healing includes focussing on the damage, taking action to protect and heal it, looking back at what caused it, learning from it, taking action to prevent a repeat (such as healing the sharp edge), so you can reduce the fear of it.
Humanity is a piece of graffiti the cosmos did when it was young.
All the world's a stage you go through.